Mix the apple butter and aged rum and allow to sit overnight. Then strain through a coffee filter.
For a Frozen Bonita Apple Butter Cocktail:
Add all ingredients to a blender with 1 1/2 cups ice. Blend until smooth. Then pour into a glass and garnish.
For a Bonita Apple Butter Cocktail On the Rocks:
Place all ingredients in a cocktail shaker. Add two handfuls of ice and shake for 20 seconds. Then fill a glass with ice and strain the cocktail into the glass. Garnish and serve.